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The Good, the Bad, but no Ugly!

The Good, the Bad, but no Ugly! Winter into Spring

It’s true, the man on the weather forecast said it.It’s the end of winter!It’s spring! I’m going to increase my output. I’m coming out of hibernation. I was listening to an expert on the TV say that most animals who hibernate do not go into a deep sleep for the winter. They cuddle up somewhere […]

Speakers – Focus on Connecting, not Perfecting 

Free Communications Webinar 28 February When does your heart race, your palms sweat, and your anxiety levels go through the roof?  For some people, it’s a sporting occasion, an important meeting or a first date, whether personal or business.  If speaking to people in person or online causes you stress, here is an invitation. If you […]

What’s Occurring?

What's Occurring?

“What’s occurring?” is an expression regularly used in one of my favourite TV shows, which finally ended this Christmas.  Gavin and Stacey was one of those shows where you cared about everybody.  When discussing the show with people, you realised that the characters’ names were on the tip of their tongues, and each person had […]

Is This How You Spell Diarrhoea?

Is this how you spell Diarrhoea? Image of toilet rolls

When we were kids in school, we spelt it this way – Di two farts and a splash!   My first week back in January after the Christmas holiday started with the D word.  I felt miserable and went to my doctor, who told me my blood pressure was very low and that I was completely […]

A Positive Outlook for 2025!

A Positive Outlook for 2025!

As a result of reading Dale Carnegie’s book “How to Stop Worrying and Start Living” and then going on to be a Dale Carnegie Inc. advocation coach, thankfully I have had a positive outlook for most of the time in my life. Or, as the song says and Monty Python sings, “always look on the […]

Take Advice from Experts, not Acquaintances!

Take Advice From Experts Not Acquaintances

Why does everybody think they’re a presentation coach? Just think about it!  Look at your own life.  Remember your parents’ advice: stand up straight, speak slower, do not mumble, and be sure to have eye contact. Perhaps you now pass that ‘sage’ advice to your children and work colleagues.  I was at a pitch event recently, and […]

Be Inspiring, It’s Easy!

Be Inspiring, It's Easy!

Recently, I went to an inspiring event created and hosted by Eve Earley, one of the most interesting and inspiring people I know.  The event was a ‘SPEAK’ event where nine people spoke on the topic of ‘uncertainty’.  These people were not professional speakers and, in most cases, did not see themselves in that role.  […]

Public Speaking – Be remembered for all the RIGHT reasons! 

Public Speaking – Be remembered for all the RIGHT reasons!

Recently, I attended a family wedding, and it was a most enjoyable day and evening.  It was lovely to meet family, some of whom I had not seen in months and others for years. It is nice to see nieces and nephews who were children the last time you saw them and are now young […]

Kindness and Cruelty

Kindness and Cruelty

The picture above has been hanging on my office wall for over twenty years. Some people I have engaged with online have commented on the image and enquired about how it came to be hanging there.  My father brought this print home from some school he was renovating when I was just a child.  Perhaps […]

Customer Facing Employees Cost MORE

Customer Facing Employees Cost MORE

It’s a costly business to employ customer-facing personnel. (This article will improve their effectiveness)  Nobody cares about what you do until you tell them why they should care and how you can benefit them.  Can you do this quickly?  This is what good movies and TV shows do. If the director does not engage you in […]